 
 
		© Craig MacDonald
		
		"Respect" meant a lot in many California and Nevada mining camps. 
		Getting it might take years, it might never happen or it might come with 
		the change of a name. Ragged Ass Bar became Canyon City. Murderer's Bar 
		evolved into Happy Camp. Whiskey Diggings was sometimes called Newark.
		
		Up in the Northern Mines, Whiskey Diggings' housewives and other women 
		became really fed up, with what was becoming, out-of-control hurdy gurdy 
		girls, who fleeced miners' hard-earned money through dances and backroom 
		hanky panky. The "decent" women, who called their respectable town, 
		Newark, met with "Mountain Messenger" publisher Robert Dewey in La Porte 
		to create a campaign to get rid of the wild ladies of the night.
		
		Dewey editorialized against the sleazy denizens of the dark, who drank, 
		cavorted and acted lewd in the saloons. The scribe wrote that these 
		dancers "took an estimated $50,000 last season in the Southern Plumas 
		camps of Whiskey Diggings, Richmond Hill and others. The money obtained 
		by these mercenary creatures has no circulation in our midst but is 
		taken to San Francisco to enrich some speculator, who lurks in 
		subterranean quarters on Pacific and Jackson Streets."
		
		The angry housewives demanded their husbands do something about this 
		dastardly dilemma right away or forfeit the pleasures of marriage. One 
		night, they successfully forced their cowed husbands to literally carry 
		the hurdy gurdys out of the saloon, down Main Street to the City Limit, 
		where the crowd demanded they never return.
		
		The influence of women and respectability also was exerted in Pioche, 
		which was once called, "the wickedest mining camp in Nevada." The town 
		was losing its reputation by the 1870s, as more and more females moved 
		into the once male-dominated community. Miners were getting married and 
		the rugged diggings was rapidly becoming respectable and civilized, much 
		to the disgust of some single chaps.
		
		The July 8, 1876 Pioche Daily Record told its readers about an 
		association being formed "to protect the men from the encroachments of 
		the female sex, which is making the poor male an object of pity. The 
		association proposed to ameliorate this."
		
		That night, The Single Men's Protective Association held its first 
		meeting in a private room, which was filled to capacity. Suddenly, right 
		smack in the middle of the intense meeting, a large thud was heard 
		outside the door, followed by a tremendous crash." The locked door was 
		being battered down!
		
		Moments later, a bevy of angry women stampeded into the room. Chaos 
		ensued as the intruder's chanted their demands to break up the 
		gathering. Male occupants stumbled over tables and chairs to escape; 
		some even dove through windows. Nobody stayed to hear the intruder's 
		demands.
		
		The Single Men's Protective Association was never heard from again. More 
		churches were built, more marriages occurred and Pioche's wicked 
		reputation had bitten the dust for good.
		
		Talk about respectability, in the Summer of 1852, a young Amador County 
		miner wrote in his diary that he "spotted a slender, willowy young woman 
		in Deadman's Creek." She was the only girl for miles around and he 
		really wanted to meet her and make a good impression. But he didn't have 
		a decent pair of pants and a nice shirt. 
		
		Soon, he was able to take his gold into town to purchase his "Sunday's 
		best" outfit, suitable for approaching the girl of his dreams. But the 
		night before he was going to wear it, a skunk entered his cabin and "cut 
		loose" forever scenting his new clothes. He sadly wrote in his diary, "I 
		was shattered. Someone else got the girl!"
		
		Another miner, named Jake, also was bitten by the love bug. He 
		feverishly tried to raise $100 to marry his longtime girlfriend. The 
		money was a dowry demanded by her father, who wanted to be properly 
		respected. Fellow prospectors often called out to lovesick Jake, "Have 
		you raised the hundred, yet?"
		
		It wasn't long before he luckily made a strike and took $500 out of the 
		ground. His comrades thought Jake would be hightailing it out of camp 
		for Oregon to marry his gal. But he stayed, increased his pile to more 
		than $6,000, got blinded by his new found wealth, and decided he was not 
		interested in settling down with a woman just yet.
		
		Some male miners did not need anyone else to help them become 
		respectable. J. Ross Browne wrote about visiting Bodie, where a dozen 
		men lived together in a shanty. "These jolly miners were the happiest 
		set of bachelors imaginable," he wrote. "They cooked their own food, did 
		their own washing, mended their clothes, made their own beds, cut their 
		own hair...." They deemed themselves happy and respectable and had no 
		need of assistance from anybody.
		
		Others, however, were convinced they needed a wife to enjoy the most out 
		of life. One Mother Lode lad wrote this about his joyful marriage:
		
		"My marriage as an act of wise
		Above all other acts in life,
		For I can gaze in two fond eyes
		And call their fair possessor wife.
		Long of a wife, I stood in need
		'Till now I've one who kneads my bread."
		
		"A man's but half a pair of shears
		Who lives alone without a wife
		And though he lives 100 years
		He never lives but half a life.
		He's always out of humor, health,
		And very often, I believe—
		Though he may be a man of wealth
		He's sadly out of knees and sleeve.
		
		From mining camp days to today, "Respect" is always in the eye of the 
		beholder. You know it if you've got it. Respecting others can help you 
		get it.